Lapse religioon ja luba abielluda mittemoslemiga

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July 23, 2010 by Tasneem

Siin Sirli tõstatas üles küsimuse et miks moslemi mehel on lubatud abielluda mitemoslemiga aga vastupidi pole. Minule endale aga on selgusetuks jäänud miks moslemi mehe lapsed kindlalt moslemid on. Otsisin netis tiba ja leidsin mõned huvitavad märkused.


Lugesin ja lugesin ma aga ei ledinud seda kohta kusagilt kus oleks täpselt nii öeldud. Sellele vaatamata on islamis öeldud et kõik vastsündinud on moslemid, mis katab ka minu küsimuse.

The Prophet (PBUH) reported that Allah said, “I created my servants in the right religion but devils made them go astray”. The Prophet (PBUH) also said, “Each child is born in a state of “Fitrah”, then his parents make him a Jew, Christian or a Zoroastrian, the way an animal gives birth to a normal offspring. Have you noticed any that were born mutilated?”
(Collected by Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim).

Nagu mina aru saan siis on oluline hoopis see et moslemi mehe last kasvatatakse nagu moslemit.

1- Moslemist mehel on õigus abielluda mittemoslemist naisega vaid juhul, kui naine on kristlane või juut.

2- Naisel on lubatud abielus praktiseerida oma religiooni. Juhul kui naine ei usu Jumalat on abielu INVALID ja abielupaar patus.

3- Kui moslemi mees abiellub Raamatu Rahvast naisega on lapsed moslemid. Kui moslemi mees nõustub tingimusega et tema lapsed võtavad üle ema religiooni või lapsed on mittemoslemid, siis sellisel juhul on mees “Murtid” (see kes eitab islamit), kuna ta laseb oma lastel olla “kaafir”. Igaüks kes laseb/nõustub oma lastel olla “kaafir” on automaatselt isegi “kaafir”.

4- Parim lahendus moslemi mehele kes soovib abielluda teisest religioonist naisega on tutvustada islamit ja oodata tema enda nõusolekut astuda islamisse. Kui naine astub islamisse oma mehe pärast siis suure tõenäosusega ta lahutuse või abieluprobleemide puhul jätab oma religiooni. Naine peab õppima islamit aeglaselt ja põhjusel et talle endale on islam meelepärane. Igasugune sundimine islamis toob kaasa vaid õnnetu ja lühiajalise abielu.


The reason for forbidding a Muslim woman from marrying a non-
Muslim, is that a Christian or a Jewish man believes only in his prophet, and doesn’t believe in prophet Mohamed Salla Allah Allih Wa Salam or any of the other prophets (blessing be upon them).

For example, when this Muslim woman, tries to teach her kids to love and respect all prophets and believe in all of them, her non-Muslim husband will not agree, because he believes only in his prophet. He will interfere in the way she raises her kids, and prevents her from raising them in an Islamic way. And here comes the real problem, because she will have only two options, whether she leaves the whole thing as it is, and does nothing about it -which will be an insult to her religion- or she argues about the matter, and this will sure lead to more marital problems.

On the other hand, there will be no such problems between a Muslim husband, and a non Muslim wife, because if this wife tried to teach her kids to love and believe in her prophet, her Muslim husband will not refuse that because he already believes in her prophet and all prophets. This is why Islam allows the marriage between Muslim man and non-Muslim woman, and forbids the marriage between Muslim woman, and non-Muslimman. Because Islam respects the marital relationship and wants to guarantee its stability, not because it respects men, and disrepects women..


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